The nerves and the waiting can just kill you. But all will be just fine. I hope your wife is ok and the surgery was something minor. Keep studying, keep training and before you know it, the time will pass. Tell your wife if she wants to join the forum, we'll happily answer questions for her as well. She might be nervous too and we can help. Also tell her, the days will drag by but the weeks will fly. Luckily it is DEPOT so there are a lot less weeks.
