Why not go for both? Put your Officer package in and enlist at the same time! If you are picked up for OCS you will be given the option to discharge and commission on the same day.
No one on this board can answer with any degree of reliability which way YOU would be more happy. The choice between enlisting and Officer is solely yours, Some people love to lead, others love to get hands on. You will get a little of both regardless of which route you take.
The CG is not going to move you every cpl of years to stay with a spouse of another service much less a boyfriend. It is difficult when you have cross service couples to ensure a reasonable commute distance between the two of you. Both services are involved, and while they due their best, the needs of the service come first.
You are working at an Active unit doing the same job as your active duty counterparts. The minimum time required is 2 days a month and 2 weeks a year, but needs of the service again prevail and you can be called upon for extended deployments.
Your recruiter will be able to answer these questions with a greater degree of accuracy as he/she will know your full situation.
I wish you the best!
These poor, plain men, dwellers upon the lonely sands of Hatteras, took their lives in their hands, and, at the most imminent risk crossed the most tumultuous sea…and all for what? That others might live to see home and friends. — Annual Report of the U.S. Life- Saving Service, 1885 Recruiting Website Read here for answers to the most often asked questions about joining the Coast Guard!