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Boyfriend left Feb. 2nd so confused
Last Post 10 Feb 2016 05:37 AM by Old Guard2. 5 Replies.
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08 Feb 2016 02:12 AM
    My boyfriend just left for the USCG. I miss him so so much and still haven't heard from him yet. We've been together for 4 years, and pretty much lived together that entire time. We had a fight be he ended up moving out November. But the night before he left it seemed like we left things at a good place. Idk I'm just so confused and I still haven't heard from him. I missed his call the day of. I'm just wondering if there is any advice.
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    08 Feb 2016 05:33 AM
    Well he has been there less than a week. They typically don't write the first week, even the first 2 weeks. You missed the call. I'm sorry but that's the military. We've all missed calls. It stings but you just understand that they'll call again when they can. I'm sorry you had a fight 4 months ago. I have to say if you lived together for almost 4 years you aren't a 16 year old girl with zero life experiences. Time to pull up the big girl pants and realize this is what it is and you just might have to wait 8 weeks until he graduates boot to figure this all out. You can write him... If he writes back, great. My advice on that is do not push. Boot camp is incredibly stressful. You do not need to add to that stress by asking all sorts of relationship questions. That's not where his head is right now. Keep letters encouraging, supportive.

    If you have any questions, feel free to ask. But you really can't worry about where you're going from here until you know where his head and heart is.
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    09 Feb 2016 10:54 PM
    so don't worry? What's meant to be will be.
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    09 Feb 2016 10:57 PM
    What can I send that will help?
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    10 Feb 2016 05:21 AM
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    10 Feb 2016 05:37 AM
    Letters only. They are not allowed to receive packages of any sort. You can send photos, but be sure they are a normal 4x6 photo and something you would show your grandma. Anything risque could get him in trouble. Yes, those could anf probably will be checked and looked at. Also, do not send a photo album... just a photo or 2.
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