I am in the same position as you. ive never thought military life was for me, but my boyfriend just left for bootcamp one week ago. so far its been very tough having all communication cut off. its been rough supporting this decision when it's something im against. i wish i had more advice but i am also lost myself. i think itll be worth it if you know theyre the one you want to be with. its definitely scarier just being a gf though because we cant live with them and the cg wont recognize us.
im also trying to figure out which company my boyfriend is in, how did you post a question here? haha